This spell can help to soothe troubled relationships and promote harmony. It is most effective for mild disharmony, but it can be used with tough conversations to address larger issues. (If you feel unsafe in your relationship, seek help immediately.)

You will need a relationship-enhancing essential oil (such as lavender, lemon verbena, or chamomile) and a carrier oil (a neutral skin-safe oil, like olive or jojoba oil). Put 1–2 tablespoons of carrier oil in a small bowl and add 1–3 drops of essential oil. Stir them together with the index finger of your dominant hand and say:

Oil of (essential oil), bring peace and harmony to my relationships. Let us understand one another and act on that understanding for our mutual greatest good.

Then raise your oil-covered index finger and rub it into your third eye while saying:

I pour oil on troubled waters to soothe our hurts and bring peace and understanding. We move forward to our greatest good.