Color of the day: Ivory Incense of the day: Clary sage Incense of the day: Clary sage Forgiving someone who has hurt you is not something you do for the person who did you wrong. Forgiveness is something you do for yourself, and for yourself alone. This is why forgiving someone who wronged you is so difficult. A spell that will help this process is to take a daisy on a windy day, and to pluck each petal while saying: While what you've done Is not forgot, I've let you go, I hate you not. Should your shadow Cross my door, Your presence won't Touch me anymore. I am free from all my anger, And I treat you as a stranger. In this time and in this hour, I forgive you, and now You have no power. Watch the petals float away, taking your pain along with them. |