If you find yourself having problems in a relationship, try this age-old ritual to get on better terms with your loved one. First, take a piece of bread and use a toothpick or other similar item to inscribe that person's name into the bread. Then place the piece of bread into a toaster or warm oven, visualizing your chilly relations "warming up" as the bread heats up. Know that both people in the relationship are responsible for being receptive to a discussion and better relationship with each other. Once the piece of toast is done, apply butter and visualize it as a healing salve that you are applying to the other person. Then take the piece of toast, bury it in a safe place, and prepare yourself to approach the person so that the healing may begin.