If a relationship is over but it doesn’t quite feel over, conditions are ideal today for clearing residual relationship energy so you can call your power back to you and begin anew. This can be done with any relationship (not just a romantic one).

First, go through your home and round up any pictures of this person, any notes or gifts from them, and anything this person once owned or co-owned with you. Then let these items go in a responsible way. Throw out, donate, sell, or recycle them accordingly. If you can’t get them out of your possession right away, that’s okay, but definitely pack them up and get them ready to move out.

Now safely light a stick of rose incense and a stick of palo santo wood. While holding a dish or plate beneath them to catch burning embers, move counterclockwise around each room and area in your home as you cleanse the space with smoke. Finish by cleansing yourself with the smoke as well. Then extinguish the incense.